We all argue

Well I will just admit that I have have arguements all the time. I come from a family that thinks we have to be right every time we have an arguement. Back last spring break, my ex bestfriend (seperate arguement) and my bestfriend Zach were dating for the third time. So she wanted to break up with him because she was only with him for attention I mean who does that? So I helped break them up and went behind Zach's back and pretended like I knew nothing about it. I told his friend Caitlynn about it who was my friend at the time until she told Zach what I did. So we fought. I was so mad I couldn't even stand it for Caitlynn to go and say all of that stuff and then ruin a friendship. I have never forgiven her for it and never will. Zach and I had a fight and he was hurt because I went behind his back and lied to him. He had ever right to be mad at me but I was so mad at Caitlynn that I took it off on Zach. We had a big fight and we stopped being friends. It did end and we are bestfriends again after the fact that we apologized to each other and I told him I would never go behind his back again and I haven't. It was probably one of e worst arguements but the arguement I had with Caitlynn was pretty bad. She told me I wasn't a good friend and I got so pissed. I don't know who she thought she was telling me that when she was my friend and just went and told Zach everything I told her. I went off on her and said a lot of choice things. Although we all have moved on and Caitlynn has no friends because of what she did to her other friends. She told there secrets and ruined all her close friendships and it is her fault. So in a way I don't feel sorry for her because of what she did to me and my friendships but in another way I don't really care anymore and everyone has moved on so we are all okay and will be. I argue with everyone and I usually get my point across to each and everyone. That might be a bad thing sometimes but other times when you are mad at someone they will understand you are mad if you get that point across. It has been almost a year since that terrible spring break were I felt really bad sob what happened but it got better and a lot can change in one year.  I stopped being bestfriends with someone I thought would always be my bestfriend but it doesn't really matter because I have moved on and have a lot of other good people in my life now. So I guess sometimes arguements can be bad but other times they can change your life and show you that what you had and wasn't what you were destined to have in the first place.